Your statement didn't touch me, because I knew it to not be true. So it didn't bother me.
In my mind it told me more about you than about me.
But your apology does touch me.
It takes courage to take the high road and ask for forgiveness.
So, I give it gladly, and hope we can move forward together in a gentler spirit.
And yes, that goes both ways. I know, I have to learn things in that area also.
So please forgive me if my replies come on too strong or seem unloveingly.
In my zealousness to keep the Forums on the right track, I know, I can be harsh sometimes.
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Re the difference between big and small sins, this Scripture came to me:
Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump?
(1 Cor. 5:6)
There is no difference between big sins and small sins.
Every single sin is enough to condemn us to eternal perdition.
That's why we need Christ's blood to hide behind on the Day of Judgement.
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son,
that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
(John 3:16)