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There’s so much to unlearn there, sorry that you’ve gone through so much. I’d never heard of Calvinism until I was a baby Christian and I’ve never attended a Calvinist church.And using "the Father" as the one to draw to Son for today is one way they interlock a seamless soteriological theology of theirs suggesting more significant lean toward the Father (because of their view on sovereignty). But by doing that, it tends to omit Christ as the One who draws now. Christ will always take a back seat to Father in American Calvinism, as i understand it. In terms of the trinity, we as evangelicals know this is true in one or "a" sense (that Christ as Son is sub to the Father, amen). But John Macarthur for a time believed that Jesus was not the Son of God eternal prior to the incarnation. He could not see Jesus as Son submitting to the Father, because admittedly Jmac could not see God submitting to Himself because He is sovereign. Later Jmac did recant of this view.
Thankfully I’ve been taught a very high view of out triune God’s worship-worthy three Persons who are co-equal with our Father as in charge. We couldn’t pray to Him without the person of Jesus and the power of His Holy Spirit. There’s a seldom taught doctrine that I love, aseity.
If anyone is looking for a good source for learning more about God’s triune three Persons I would recommend Arnold Fruchtenbaum’s Ariel Ministries website: Come and See | Studies
Here are the verses I was thinking of:I am not aware though that it says the spirit draws us.
John 16:7-9
I tell you the truth. It is to your advantage that I go away; for if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you; but if I depart, I will send Him to you. 8 And when He has come, He will convict the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment: 9 of sin, because they do not believe in Me;
(I bolded the word ‘sin’ to point out that it is singular. The Holy Spirit convicts the world that they don’t believe in Jesus—as each of us needed to turn from. We aren’t talking behavior issues. We are turning from doubting God to placing our trust in His love shown in Jesus.)
In addition:
John 3:5-8
Jesus answered, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Do not marvel that I said to you, ‘You must be born again.’ The wind blows where it wishes, and you hear its sound, but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes. So it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit.”2 Corinthians 3:6
Who has made us sufficient to be ministers of a new covenant, not of the letter but of the Spirit. For the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.More thoughts on this—if we respond by simple faith to God, His Word begins to build our faith! Our spirits begin to discern spiritual truth that never made sense to us before: “The man without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him, and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned”
Overall, we don’t need to credit one Person of the Godhead because He is One and had this loving plan in mind before we existed. (I don’t know about you, but I didn’t exist in eternity past.) Personally I hold that God calls sinners who don’t believe in Jesus to turn and simply believe. That includes our loving Father drawing with the Holy Spirit convicting as the Word truly grips us. He first loved us.
Here’s a very nice reminder about the trinity:
The Father's role in the Trinity
Scripture reveals to us that there is only one God and He exists in three persons, the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, a self-existent triunity that we often refer to as the Trinity. All three persons of the Trinity are equal in nature and live in perfect unity and relationship with each other, but Scripture makes it clear that there are distinct roles among the members of the Trinity and an order of subordination among the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.Members of the Trinity voluntarily submit to one another. The Holy Spirit submits to the Father and Son, and the Son submits to the Father. This voluntary submission shows us that our God is a God of order while also being the eternal perfection of humility. In the context of the church and in the context of marriage, this is a great example to remember. When Scripture speaks of believers submitting to one another or wives submitting to husbands, keep in mind this is a practice that is first demonstrated in God Himself. God isn't asking us to do something that He doesn't do as well.
Within the Trinity, God the Father operates as the Head. As the Head, He sent God the Son into the world to accomplish our salvation.

Who is God the Father and what does He do?
