"I certainly hope its true," was referring to a hope of salvation for friends and loved ones plus during the tribulation. In general, your back and forth on this concern was most clearly stated in the following quote: "worry many will be killed instantly as a result of the sudden disappearance of millions around the world."
My post was just meant to compare what we know (that our concerns prior to evangelicalism discovering we are probably in end times) came differently than most of us thought. From conversation I have had over the years, most believers I spoke with agreed that no one really thought end times would fall upon us with so much patient time-released indicators along the way. Most of us thought it would catch the world off guard. Instead it caught the church by surprise in how open, observable, and slowly unfolding end time actually has come upon all of us.
Just like that, perhaps it is also true that when we come to what we know in the Bible of "sudden destruction," even that (in light of what we know--that end times has creeped upon us more than it has for us been a theif in the night) might come with patience before it. One way to look at this is Oct 7th for Isreal caught them by surprise in 2023. But seemed to be a miniature golf version of Ez 38. It is even rumored that perhaps what we saw in Oct of 2023 was a very early beginning stage of Ez 38, but one group (Hamas) got cocky and broke away from network planning and decided to just do it themselves. Which was half cocked. And embarrassing as a whole--if Hamas was one cog in a much greater network wheel to surround Israel.
In another way, Oct 7th was like a miniature Ez 38 because it surprised Israel at a time we all thought their Iron Dome protected them from such attacks like we saw. In that sense, and in that way, it was kind of theif in the night like. But given to Israel and a world that all got caught by surprise in it. If Ez 38 is within a few years out from now or so, then Oct 7th serves as one wake up call for Israel and the world of such said event on the horizon.
So here is what we have:
A) Israel gets attacked in shock
B) But that proves to be not devastating but at least on some fronts, a heads up
C) In very similar manner -- evangelicalism arrived unto end times gradually...it was not sudden
D) HERE IS THE UNKOWN -- So if A-C are true about God's character toward this end time age, it might also be true that God provide Israel a unique runway leading up to Ez 38...where Israel might have eyes opened (some of them) before their big day -- me thinks...and maybe many of them rapture with the church on the cusp of Ez 38 forming possibly.
So I ask you brother to consider those approaches we have seen in our end time wake, and consider "D" too which is literally hitched to the biblical concept of "Sudden destruction," and perhpas consider that where you might have concern of millions dying because of the rapture, that maybe (based on the revealed character of God disclosed to us in the last days) that how God's character might also weigh-in during perhaps even early parts of the tribulation might be more in relation to His character than otherwise what worse case scenarios about those days might be like. Since we don't know for sure, what we do know, and what we have been shown is God's greater character in patience and easing things into place. And that is the character of God going into the tribulation.
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This is from Revelation 11
And after the three and a half days, the breath of life from God came into them, and they stood on their feet; and great fear fell upon those who were watching them. 12 And they heard a loud voice from heaven saying to them, “Come up here.” And they went up into heaven in the cloud, and their enemies watched them. 13 And [
i]at that time there was a great earthquake, and a tenth of the city fell; [
j]seven thousand people were killed in the earthquake, and the rest were terrified and gave glory to the God of heaven.
That is right before the 7th Trumpet (which to me in what I understand places it about at just after the halfway mark). And what catches my attention there is that last statement capture: "and the rest were terrified and gave glory to the God of heaven." Even here so far into the tribulation. We know that when the bowls hit, there will be a lot of people angry at God. And wont' repent. I believe many in that time though will be repenting. But that is for another time. What we do have here though is this...we have around the midpoint of the tribulation many also who fear God at that point.
So yes many bad things can and likely will happen after the rapture. But if those many people "the rest" gave glory to God that late in the tribulation, then in light of what we know about the character of God (being perhaps a bit less intense in the beginning stages of the tribulation than at the midpoint or at the end), it would stand to reason (from our own current experiences with how the character of God is handling end times even now) that since we don't know how it will play out exactly when it hits, that in that unknown it would be reasonable to lean on what is more favorable than what is less favorable. Not that how we look at it makes it one way or the other. Just that from what we know vs what we can't know, we do have precedent to lean more toward the goodness of God's character allowing for best possible outcomes in the early stages of the tribulation was my point. If that makes sense? Blessings.