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The Necessity of Affliction

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The Necessity of Affliction

John MacDuff (1818-1895)

"Though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been distressed by various trials" 1 Peter 1:6

What a blessed motto and superscription over the dark lintels of sorrow: "There is a necessity for this!" Every arrow from the quiver of God is feathered with it! Write it, child of affliction, over every trial that your God sees fit to send!

If He calls you down from the sunny mountain-heights, to the darksome valleys—hear Him saying: "There is a necessity for this!"

If He has dashed the cup of earthly prosperity from your lips, curtailed your creature comforts, diminished your "basket and store"—hear Him saying: "There is a necessity for this!"

If He has plowed and furrowed your soul with severe bereavement, extinguished light after light in your dwelling—hear Him thus stilling the tumult of your grief, "There is a necessity for this!"

Yes, believe it—there is some profound reason for your trial, which at present may be indiscernible to you. No furnace will be hotter than He sees to be needed.

Be still, and know that He is God! That "necessity," remember, is in the hands of infinite Love, infinite Wisdom, and infinite Power! Trust Him in little things, as well as in great things; in trifles as well as in disasters. Seek to have an unquestioning faith. Though other paths, doubtless, would have been selected by you had the choice been in your hands—be it yours to listen to His voice at every turn of the road, saying, "This is the way, walk in it!"

We may not be able to understand it now, but one day we shall find that affliction is one of God's most blessed ministers, sent forth to "minister to those who are heirs of salvation."

Sorrowful one! There is a reason for your chastisement. "For the Lord disciplines those whom He loves, and chastens every child whom He accepts." Hebrews 12:6

What! God loves me, when He is discharging His quiver upon me, emptying me from vessel to vessel, causing the sun of my earthly joys to set in clouds? Yes, afflicted, tempest-tossed one! He chastens you, because He loves you! This trial comes from His own tender, loving hand—from His own tender, unchanging heart!

Are you laid on a sick bed, are sorrowful months and wearisome nights appointed unto you? Let this be the pillow on which your aching head reclines: It is because God loves me!

Is it bereavement which has swept your heart and desolated your dwelling? God appointed that chamber of death, He opened that tomb—because He loves you!

Believer! Rejoice in the thought that the chastening rod is in the hands of the living, loving Savior who died for you! Tribulation is the King's Highway, and yet that highway is paved with love. As some flowers require to be pressed before shedding their fragrance—so does your God see fit to bruise you, to bring out your graces.

If your heavenly Father's smile has for the moment been exchanged for the chastening rod, be assured there is some deep necessity for the discipline. There is nothing capricious in His dealings. Love is the reason of all that He does. There is no drop of wrath in that bitter cup you are called upon to drink!

Erring human wisdom has no place in God's allotments. An earthly father may err—yes, he is ever erring. But "as for God, His way is perfect!" This is the explanation of His every dealing: "Your heavenly Father knows that you have need of all these things!"

In our seasons of trial, when under some inscrutable painful dispensation, how apt is the murmuring thought to rise in our hearts:
"All these things are against me! Might not this overwhelming blow have been spared. Might not this dark cloud, which has shadowed my heart and my home with sadness, have been averted? Might not my trial have been less severe? Surely the Lord has forgotten to be gracious!"

No! These afflictions are errands of mercy in disguise! "He does not afflict willingly." There is nothing capricious or arbitrary about your God's dealings. Unutterable tenderness is the character of all His allotments! He appoints no needless pang. He has precious lessons that could not otherwise have been taught!

Afflicted one! Be assured that there is some deep necessity in all that He does. In our calendars of sorrow we may put this luminous mark against every trying hour: "It was needed!" Some excess branch in the tree required pruning, to increase its fruitfulness.

Mourning one! He might have dealt far otherwise with you! He might have cut you down as a fruitless, worthless cumberer! He might have abandoned you to drift—disowned and unpiloted on the rocks of destruction, joined to your idols! He might have "left you alone" to settle on your lees, and forfeit your eternal bliss! But He loved you better. It was kindness—infinite kindness, which blighted your fairest blossoms, and hedged up your way with thorns!
 
Great post. I've begun to understand more that my troubles often are God's answer in solving other problems, so, I remind myself.... this may be a blessing in disguise.

In other situations I've learned endurance, continued faith in the face of continued trial, God's increased faithfulness and a degree of trustworthiness I've not known before which gave depth and increased anchor of faith in Jesus.

All has prepared and strengthened me with God's resilience and capacity to be of help to others.

Some trials give proof to what God knows is there, faith in Him. In those trials, faith in Him is displayed to others, which He in turn can use in drawing others to Him, to reflect His character, mercy, love, grace, forgivness, gentlenes....... the way of God, Jesus Christ.

There's often much more happening then we are aware of and so trusting God, Who's worthy to be trusted is imperative. And we can ask for His strength and help in this.... He's so faithful and compassionate to our weaknesses.
 
I can certainly vouch for this post with how my life is and has been. I have been chastised, but more often than not it has worked out for good.
Romanss 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.

I got saved at 28 and God gave me a wife when I was 32. No, I mean he literately gave me a wife who contacted me when I knew nothing about her other than her first name. We got married 7 months later and had two children who are still a great blessing. So 36 years later my wife wanted and received a divorce. Now anyone reading this and has been divorced knows just how hard a divorce can be, especially after 36 years.

The details of why we got divorced is not relevant to this point I will make, so I won't go into that. After the divorce I asked God why would he take away the wife that he gave me? Not right away, but the answer I received is because she had become and idol for me and I put her wants above God. This was true as she was not about serving God as much as I was and that was holding me back. God needed for me to be free of her so that I could serve him and he had an assignment for me. I am currently in the middle of that assignment which is building up some young Christians with the knowledge the Holy Spirit has given me and also sharing the Gospel with the unsaved.

You may asks was this really for my good? Am I really happier and more content now? Yes, though I will admit it becomes lonely at times. However there is much joy for me sharing God's word and more relevant than that, I will gain rewards in Heaven. To state the obvious, eternity is much longer than this life. So God is much more concerned about eternity for us than this short little life span we have.

Just thought I would give an example of how God wants what is best for us when we don't always see it that way. We want all the blessing right now but we will be very glad God treated us how he did when we get to Heaven! 👍

God Bless! 😍
 
Goodboy, I remember this time as you asked for prayers and at one point sensed a degree of despair you were experiencing. In concern, I prayed for you that God would keep you in His loving care. I'm thankful for God's faithfulness to you.

With all the wonderful gifts God grants there can be a danger of shifting devotion from Him to His gifts. Our loved ones, whether beloved spouses, children, dear friends, even hobbies or careers can hold that temptation for us, don't they?

I think that's part of the dangerous inticements of the world system, geared to move humanity's hearts towards devotion to anything or anyone else as a poor substitute of sole devotion to God alone.

But, it's our devotion to God first, which then blesses us and others. And also divides.

I'm so glad God has sustained you and brought greater blessings in your life. :)
 
If He calls you down from the sunny mountain-heights, to the darksome valleys—hear Him saying: "There is a necessity for this!"
Those valleys aren't easy to walk thru but they are the most fruitful place we can be.

Phil 3:10
10 That I may know him, and the power of his resurrection, and the fellowship of his sufferings, being made conformable unto his death;
 
There's Always truth in The Word of God, and God Always has a purpose for everything.
We can't always understand the whys of things that we go through. But one thing for certain is that God Always works for the good for those who love Him, and we Trust Him that He will answer our prayers in His perfect timing.
When we remember that God is Love, this encourages us in knowing that God loves us more than anyone, and in the midst of our sufferings, God knows our frame and remembers that we are made of dust, and is Compassionate towards us, so while we go through our trials, God remains with us, and if needed He will even carry us through them, because that's The God of Love that He is.
This fallen world and fallen flesh brought the sorrows that resulted from sin. But Praise be to God for Jesus Christ Who has saved us and has given us our Hope of every sorrow coming to an end and even the last enemy, death, will be crushed under His feet.
Glory to God.
 
"Behold, I have refined you, but not as silver;
I have tested you in the furnace of affliction."
Isaiah 48:10

6 "In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while, if need be, you have been grieved by various trials,
7 that the genuineness of your faith, being much more precious than gold that perishes, though it is tested by fire, may be found to praise, honor, and glory at the revelation of Jesus Christ,"
1 Peter 1:6-7
 
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