thank you!
Let me tell you about God's grace with my father in law. 103, dying, his very last week of life and he finally lets me talk about salvation. He was feeling scared, he spoke about that and I was able to quickly lead him to the Lord.
Using JD Farag's ABC's of salvation because there simply was no time. He was breathless (dying of congestive heart failure) and too tired to talk long.
BUT HE GOT SAVED! And we all rejoiced. He died shortly after, in his sleep at the ripe old age of 103. George my beloved husband is with him now, he died in March this year.
My dad didn't --but there too, God in His comfort and mercy has comforted me with the remembrance of all the times Dad was offered salvation and turned it down. The last night before he died from that awful MAID program here in Canada, I had the door open (GODS GRACE!) for one last time to present the gospel and ask him to reconsider. He was a bit nicer than usual in turning me down and went on to talk of other things.
As I reflected on his death I thought of all the times, all the people who had tried to tell him of Christ from my late mother who he adored, to her family (2 missionary aunties, a creation scientist uncle, my grandparents both solid believers on mum's side who he respected and loved) and me- my sister too. Those were the ones I knew of. I prayed for his salvation most of my life with the exception of my very early years.
There is sadness but not the bitter grief I expected. There is comfort in remembering the times I was able to turn the conversation to the Lord and his need for salvation. Remembering that I did everything I could, God opened so many doors for the gospel over his life, he was prayed for more than most people and yet his choice remained to reject God.
There is a sense of peace in "having done all stand". Knowing that all that could have been done was done, and that it truly was his choice.
Now let me also tell you about my 96 year old brother in law. He's not saved......yet!
My son in law was showing me his new barn up at their farm a few weeks ago and he said something about my brother in law
"What's keeping him alive????" he asked and said "I don't know how he keeps living!"
I laughed and looked at Kyler, and said I KNOW!!!!
OK WHAT THEN???
I told him remember my father in law??? (Kyler knew him well and had rejoiced with us when he got saved)
Yeah???
I've been PRAYING for him just like Grandpa!!! God's keeping him alive because of GODS GRACE and mercy!"
Kyler got it then.
Thing is I don't know if my brother in law will accept the Lord, but I've been praying for him for decades. He came of Christian parents but he never believed.
I gotta think his parents prayed HARD for him, I know I would have.
I think I've been praying for him for the better part of 46 years now. He's 96.
Maybe he will be like my father in law. I hope so.
I know it's hard, when we pray so long for an unsaved loved one, but look at my father in law! Praise God.